Howdy guys ... :)
Wanna talk about tantrums today. I'm kind of making here as one of the channel for sharing my opinions.
People feel tired after work, normal.
People feel tired after half of the day spend in school, normal.
People complain about it, normal.
People is taking granted of people that they love and throw tantrums on them, normal but not okay at all.
After long working hours, (no matter what is your job, everyone works) you feel frustrated or even fatigue and having migraine and you feel like complaining or when something unexpected happened / something that happened you find it unpleasant, you
throw tantrums and majority is on your family members. Because you know they won't leave you and divorce is just too much work that your spouse would never bother about it. You are taking granted of them.
Family leaves, it is just a matter of time.
Your spouse would leave as well, it is just a matter of time and state of mind.
Nobody can't live without anybody. #fact
After a long and tiring working hours, when something unpleasant happened but on a stranger, you wouldn't be as mad as you shout at your family when what happened is on your family instead of a stranger! Am I right?
Everyone works and do you ever think of what kind of job you have to make you have the privilege to throw your tantrums around? (I'm not sure about Obama though) Everyone works and why do you think everyone else other than you is not tired? Do you think you work the hardest so that you are able to throw tantrums around? Think! I'm sure you are not.
People tends to get mad and throw tantrums on the one who they are close with like family members, especially mom. Mom never leave their children and that's why! Children are the one who leave mom (exceptions do exist)! And treat strangers with all the patient that should have given to your love one! I don't know what happened?!
Imagine when you are all excited about your father's return from work and you wanted to share with him what happened in your college but then your father come back with grumpy face and shout at you about trivial thing! How would you feel? Or imagine yourself as the father but you never see how hurtful the child will be.
People never appreciate what they have until it's lost! Appreciate the one with you especially family members because you never know what may happen tomorrow and this encounter may be the last one. You don't want to regret. Trust me!
You may not be the one who is throwing tantrums around but someone else is then what you should do is don't hold grudges and talk to them about it in due course. Appreciate. ❤