Wednesday, December 10, 2014

Mind Games vs Desperate ... ❤


Howdy guys ... :)

Finally! Exam is over! I had been working on it until my spinal cord shifted its position and it is tingling due to sedentary ... :( But anyway, let's talk about something! Something i find it really interesting! [Refer to the video above]

"More than one sentence, you are considered as DESPERATE!" 
Everyone has been through this stage, i guess. You don't know what to say, how to say and when to say something or anything to your "crush" ? (They say crush is someone that never like you back ...?) So you seek advice from your friends and normally that is what they would be telling you. "Don't make yourself look or sound desperate, or else you are cheaper to him/her." =...=

I have just been through the stage and i'm those straight-forward type.
I hate wasting time or hanging on some uncertainty. If no one stop me, i would just go up and tell him "I think i kinda like you, can i have your number?" I tell you WHY! Because if he said NO then what is there to lose, for me? (Thick-face usually get you more instead of losing. Because you dare to ask what others don't!) Move on and get another one?! If he said YES then let's get to know each other more! By taking things straight-forward, you save lots and tons of hassle from your mind! You may be over-thinking about whether he is into your friends or somebody else and blah blah blah ...

My friends have been saying like "You so dry meh? Why so desperate?'" and so on.
Let's define the word "DESPERATE" ...
This is what i get when i google "define desperate" ...
I guess we have been using it wrongly ... 
This is what i get from "Urban Dictionary" ... 
I guess this is what they meant ... 

Frankly, the word "Desperate" flares me up a little. 
I'm not DESPERATE. If i am, i would have just settled for less and simply get anyone with me. It isn't that hard though. In contrast, i think it is fine to sound a bit desperate. You know WHY? So that the other party will have the feeling of being someone special to you. Instead of uncertain whether he likes you or is he just trying to be nice or even just kissing my ass for something he is beneficial. 

Don't misconstrue! 
I'm not saying that those friends who have been telling you to hold back are nerds or what ... 
What i'm trying to say is that, you take in people's advice but you don't stuck with it. You collect, analyze, process it and make decision yourself whether or not to do whatever the action is in your mind. 

Just remember ...
If he/she likes you, no matter what you say or reply in messages, he/she will still like you. 
If he/she don't like you, no matter how "hard" or "expensive" you are, he/she won't even have a tad of feeling toward you. So why not just be yourself? The right one will fit in. ❤ 

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