Wednesday, May 13, 2015

[Relationship] Duty of A Boyfriend ... ❤


Howdy guys ... :)
Wanna share something about boyfriend - your intimate partner, not your usual boy's friends.

I was talking to a friend of mine and i was so shocked by that kind of mindset she has about the 'duty' of her boyfriend. She was mad because her boyfriend couldn't make it to pick her up and send her home ... WHAT?! Wait ~ Do you have the same kind of thoughts like her?' If yes, i think you are sick ... Candidly.

Boyfriend is just a term. Trust me!
Boyfriends do not have the obligation to pick you up or send you to wherever you want. Boyfriends do not have the obligation to support you financially. Boyfriends do not have to buy you whatever you want. Boyfriends do not have to buy you birthday present just because it is your birthday. There isn't rules and regulation or any traditional customs stated the boyfriends' responsibilities. If you have one that buy and willing to take care of you without you asking, then you are lucky. Just appreciate it and don't take granted of it. If you have to ask or even nag to get it, you are pathetic.

I believe that social media has influenced all of us a lot. Or maybe the drama. K-drama.
Girls keep bragging about things that their boyfriends bought for them, expensive restaurant they have gone to, expensive handbags that was presented by their boyfriends and so on and so you assume every single boyfriends have to be in the similar way or you set the 'Good Boyfriend' standard for bench-marking?' It would be great that if you have a caring and wealthy boyfriend, but are you so sure that he will stay with you forever?' There are a lot of girls out there and why the hell does he need a money-sucker to burden himself?' Unless you are incapable or disable ... Even though you are disable, you still have to work for yourself. You don't rely on your boyfriend for foods, living, and so on. That's the dumbest thing i have ever heard.

Like what Oprah Winfrey said.
"You are responsible for your life. If you're sitting around waiting on somebody to save you, to fix you, to even help you, you are wasting your time because only you have the power to take responsibility to move your life forward." Stop expecting so damn much from your partner! Stop torturing yourself with all the drama! Stop abusing yourself mentally by comparing your boyfriend and people's boyfriend!

Do you ever wonder why is that other's boyfriend is always better than yours?' 
I have the answer! ONE, you are taking your boyfriend for granted. You are a bitch who does not know about appreciation. TWO, before you start comparing, have you ever reflected yourself on whether you deserve to be treating in better way or even the way you wanted?'

Boyfriends are supposed to be a partner.

Thanks for reading ... ❤

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